My Lifelines.

When you’ve been best friends with someone forever, there comes a time when you move to different states, go to different schools, and sometimes lose touch. But when you return, you’re still as weird and dysfunctional as ever before.
When you’ve been friends with someone forever, you don’t even need to get to the punchline anymore, they’re already laughing. You really do start acting like an old married couple. You’re not afraid to bicker, and honestly, you’re probably too attached to each other to stay mad for long.
When you’ve been friends with someone forever, you get comfortable with silence, arguably the most awesome aspect of any relationship. You can go on trips together or even just hang out without feeling like you need to fill every second with words.
We all know that the Whatsapp posts get uglier as the friendship deepens, but people who have been friends for years take it to a new, grossly indescribable level.
When you’ve been friends with someone forever, you’ve stopped keeping tabs on who owes who what in terms of drinks bought and money spent. At the end of the day your only thought is “eh, it’ll probably even itself out eventually.’’
When you’ve been friends with someone forever, you’re the one that their significant other really has to win over.
Truthfully, when you’ve been friends with someone forever, they have literally been your therapist for too many years to count. They are always there for you. Always.
And now, you’re living that part of life when you’re starting to do the things you always sat in your room and talked about doing, like getting jobs and getting married, and though it’s crazy bittersweet, it’s crazier that they’re still here to witness it just as you spoke about it before. They are still here to talk you into or out of a relationship. You wait for them to have kids and you want to love them more than anything on this earth.
Such friendships have made me what I am today and I hope to cherish them for years to come.
love you guys!
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